17/05 May 2017
5 things wise grandparents do
by Dr. Dave Currie I am called ‘G-Pa’ referring to my role as the very proud grandfather of 12 amazing grandchildren. I haven’t heard anyone else called G-Pa in my life, likely because I made up the name. We’ve all heard of Grandpa, Grandfather, Granddad, Opa, Papa and even Granddaddy (we have southern relatives), […]
17/05 May 2017
A Mother’s Influence
by Pastors Dave and Cheryl Koop, Coastal Church An editor submitted a list of people to Winston Churchill, asking who on the list had been his teacher. He returned the list with this comment, “you have omitted to mention the greatest of my teachers, my mother.” In Exodus 2 we read about Jochebed, Moses’ […]
14/04 April 2014
Steps to rebuild trust – Betrayed :Part 2
by Dr. Dave Currie Last month, in Part 1 of Betrayed, I laid out the challenges facing our generation regarding the breaking of trust. In it I detailed the 12 steps that the offending partner should take to seek to rebuild trust with their mate. If you haven’t read Part 1, you can view it […]
16/12 December 2016
The best gift for your spouse
By Dr. Dave Currie Ever been stuck wondering what to get your spouse for Christmas? I sure have, especially since I’m a December 24th power shopper! I know, I don’t deserve much sympathy as one of those last minute guys. But I really do love to be creative and show unusual thoughtfulness to let my […]
16/11 November 2016
Couple’s therapy – Part 3 Finding financial fairness
by Arnold Machel, CFP® “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don’t get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God.” James 4:1-2 […]
16/11 November 2016
‘Face-to-Face’ couples have better heart and immune system
If your health isn’t so hot, it may be time to start improving your marriage. That’s because research shows a secure marriage actually helps to strengthen your physical health. And with cold and flu season upon us, it’s not just time to wash your hands, it’s also time to work on your relationship. “A secure […]
16/11 November 2016
Keep calm and carry on
by Dr. Dave Currie Winston Churchill’s tenacious spirit was undoubtedly what inspired the British government to produce this famous morale-boosting poster from World War II “Keep Calm and Carry On”. It was created to steady the nation against the recurring, formidable and crushing attacks and pending invasion by enemy forces. Its hope-filled, courageous tone can […]
16/10 October 2016
Digital Delirium Part 2: Wise boundaries for your marriage
by Dr Dave Currie Unchecked digital habits are sucking the life out of too many marriages. I’m talking about all the time, energy and attention that goes to things like Facebook, texting, emailing, YouTube, Instagram, Snapchat, online gaming, kindles and a myriad of opportunities, attractions and apps that tend to preoccupy our lives. Digital distraction […]
16/09 September 2016
Digital Delirium Part 1: electronic devices and marriage
by Dr. Dave Currie Between my cellphone, iPad and laptop, digital technology has made my life better. I can do life faster and more efficiently. I depend on it daily. I rely on it deeply. I am seriously bent out of shape if one of my devices is not cooperating. Convenience to life – yes. […]
Everyday Life
Couple’s Therapy – Part 1: Having the money chat
by Arnold Machel, CFP® “An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.”- Proverbs 24:26 (NIV) Dr. John Gottman (author and/or co-author of 40 books relating to marriage and relationships) states that 69 per cent of marriage conflicts are never resolved. We just have the same basic argument over and over and over again. […]