I married my husband Kris when I was 25. Like many Christian couples, engagement and marriage came fast which came with its own set of blessings and challenges. And, at age 34 I am still figuring out how to be a Godly wife, and that’s ok. I grew up in a time in culture that focused on the importance of individualism within the feminine experience. Phrases like, “I’m a strong … [Read more...] about Independent Woman to Interdependent Partnership
Marriage
Does Marriage still matter?
For many today, marriage is seen as a nice tradition – but not a necessity. Research consistently shows that strong marriages contribute to health, happiness, and thriving communities. Yet rather than fostering good marriages, society often dismisses the institution altogether. Marriage is the foundation of a strong and stable society, providing essential benefits to … [Read more...] about Does Marriage still matter?
The Inescapable St. Valentine’s Day
My wife Janice and I will be celebrating our 47th Wedding Anniversary on May 21. Almost five decades later, I can say without reservation that I love her more deeply with each passing year. She daily captivates me with how amazing she is as a wife, mother, grandmother, and sibling. I struck the jackpot when I married her. Since she recovered from cancer three … [Read more...] about The Inescapable St. Valentine’s Day
Relationship-oriented behaviours of effective leaders
Leadership guru, Michael Sessions, identified four relationship-oriented behaviours of effective leaders. The first behaviour involves support. These individuals offer support through friendliness, careful thought to the well-being of others and concern for the needs and feelings of others. Through this behaviour “they win loyalty, cooperation and support from those being … [Read more...] about Relationship-oriented behaviours of effective leaders
Love late in life: Part 2, The bad and the ugly
Before you read further, go back and read Part One – Love Late in Life: The Good. (Feb 2020 Light Magazine). You need to read it because it’s hopeful and helpful and lovely. It balances what is written here and helps find a way forward when you find yourself in love, or supporting someone who has fallen in love late in life. Love late in life is complex. There are children, … [Read more...] about Love late in life: Part 2, The bad and the ugly