The Christmas Blessing

As we approach the Christmas season, it is important to remember that Jesus was probably not born on December 25.  Historical evidence suggests that early Christians chose this date in the 4th century, perhaps to provide a Christian alternative to pagan festivals like Saturnalia. The Bible doesn’t pinpoint the exact day of Christ’s birth, but December 25 has become the day we set aside to celebrate one of the most powerful and world-changing events in history: the incarnation of Christ. For our family it is an important day to celebrate the birth of Jesus and to take the time to bless our children and grandchildren.

Though the exact date may be uncertain, what remains undeniably true is the significance of the virgin birth. Jesus, both fully God and fully man, entered the world to fulfill God’s redemptive plan. Philippians 2:6-7 tells us that Christ, “being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.” This is the miracle of the incarnation – God stepping into our broken world to reconcile us to Himself. The angelic announcement to Mary marks one of the most profound moments in history, as the angel Gabriel visited her with a message from God.  In Luke 1:28, Gabriel greets her with the words, “Greetings, you who are highly favoured! The Lord is with you.” This blessing before conception was a divine affirmation of Mary’s role in God’s plan for salvation. In this moment, the identity question, “Am I welcome in the world?” is answered resoundingly as God, Himself, prepares to enter creation through the birth of His Son, Jesus. Mary’s acceptance of this blessing reminds us of the powerful truth that every life, including the life of the Savior, is divinely appointed by God.

In today’s society, we are confronted with the heartbreaking reality that the womb is not always a safe place for a child, as nearly 50 percent of children conceived out of wedlock are aborted. This raises deep questions about the sanctity and protection of life. Several years ago, in the movie portrayal of Jesus of Nazareth, we see a young Mary, visibly pregnant, facing the scrutiny of her small community. People begin to whisper, questioning her faithfulness to Joseph, with some even speculating a Roman soldier was involved. To protect her from shame, Mary’s father sends her to stay with her older cousin Elizabeth, who is also expecting – carrying John the Baptist. When Elizabeth hears Mary’s greeting, the baby leaps in her womb, and she is filled with the Holy Spirit and declares, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear!” (Luke 1:41-42) In this moment, we see that God’s plan for life transcends human judgment and the identity question at pregnancy “Is there a safe place for me?” is answered for Jesus, even in uncertain and challenging circumstances.

Blessing at birth answers the critical question: “Will my needs be met in this world?” Only God could orchestrate the beautiful birth of His Son, Jesus. In Luke 2:8-20, we see angels sent from heaven to announce His arrival and shepherds came praising God. This divine celebration at the birth of Emmanuel – God with us – was a powerful declaration of His purpose to save us. Today, every child should be welcomed and celebrated at birth. Naming a child is a profound act of blessing that shapes their identity and destiny. When we held our grandson Jude Alexis Neil in our arms, we blessed his identity as ‘son of praise,’ his gender and destiny as a ‘defender of others’ and a ‘champion of men.’ Just as God named His Son Yeshua (Jesus), meaning “He will save us,” we affirm the future of our children through the power of blessing.

Each Christmas, after our family dinner, I share a special Christmas blessing (that I have prepared in advance) for each of our children, their spouses, and grandchildren. I begin by looking up the meaning of their names and gathering pictures that capture highlights from the past year. I add a scripture that speaks to their journey and a personalized word of blessing. In crafting these blessings, I ensure they include five key elements: a meaningful touch, a spoken word of encouragement, the affirmation of their immense incredible value, a vision of their bright future, and my commitment to stand with them in seeing the blessing fulfilled. This annual tradition is a way to pour God’s love and purpose into their lives.

This year, take a moment to give each of your loved ones the gift of a powerful Christmas Blessing.  A Christmas blessing is more than just kind words or gifts; it is an opportunity to speak life and hope, reminding others of the miracle of Emmanuel – God with us.  

This Christmas may the grace and peace of our Lord Jesus Christ fill your hearts and homes. As you celebrate His birth, may you experience the fullness of His love and presence. I bless you and your entire household with emotional healing, spiritual growth, and unity as a family. May the Prince of Peace guide you and may His joy overflow in every aspect of your lives. May this season be a time of renewed faith, deep connection, and abundant blessings for you and your loved ones.  

Merry Christmas and may His light shine brightly in your hearts! https://www.familyfoundations.ca/